April 07, 2021 | Posted by : J Morris
Finances are usually the main focus of divorce negotiations as they are tied up with pretty much every other aspect of the process – assets, debts, property, children’s arrangements and even future considerations like pensions and retirement. Getting all the necessary documentation together can feel a bit like an audit but it’s important to make sure that you have a thorough and accurate financial overview of both your joint and individual circumstances in order to move forward and reach a fair settlement.
Your solicitor is your best guide for working through this process, as every situation will be unique, but there are several important financial considerations that everyone should be mindful of:
Delayed Financial Settlements
Under current divorce laws, it’s possible ...
April 01, 2021 | Posted by : J Morris
The breakdown of a relationship is rarely due to one single event. Of course there are moments of high emotion or final straw incidents – the deal breakers that mark the beginning of the end – but in most cases there will be underlying issues, and things will have been gradually breaking down for much longer. A slow accumulation of little things, micro-aggressions, irritations and hairline fractures, until it only takes one more nudge to send the whole thing crashing down… The ‘facts’ put down to prove unreasonable behaviour often only show a tiny portion of the real situation, and infidelity is often a symptom of a much deeper problem within a relationship.
Far too often, it’s communication that ...
February 01, 2021 | Posted by : J Morris
If you’re one of the 60% of UK adults who still have yet to make a will or set up lasting powers of attorney, it’s high time you stopped putting it off and got it done! Making decisions about your end of life care needn’t be time consuming, expensive, or a morbid exercise, but it will help to safeguard your future, your family’s future, and give you peace of mind you didn’t even realise you were missing.
But if you’re still not sure, can’t be bothered, or think it’s not important, here are ten questions to ask yourself.
Who will look after your children or dependents if you die or become unable to care for them? Who do you trust ...
January 18, 2021 | Posted by : J Morris
This week is Family Mediation Week, raising awareness of the benefits of mediation and how it can be used to help couples and families going through separation.
Family mediation is an effective, out-of-court method of working through issues to do with separation in a collaborative and productive way. The aim of mediation is to minimise antagonism, help you really talk to each other, and focus on cooperation, keeping the important decisions in your hands. It is particularly well suited to those with children and has been shown to offer better outcomes for separating parents than other approaches of dispute resolution.
Supported by a professional mediator, couples are able to work together to find a solution that is in their ...
January 15, 2021 | Posted by : J Morris
We’ve all been through a difficult year but with hopes for an effective vaccine and a return to normal, 2021 brings us a little optimism for the future. But 2020 also showed us how precarious and fragile our circumstances can be, and that many people haven’t considered what they’d do or how their family would be protected if the worst should happen. The threat of Coronavirus is still in our lives, along with the worrying development of ‘Long Covid’ which has left people suffering and unable to work for months after contracting the virus.
None of us want to think about the worst case scenario, but thinking about these things is a lot less scary when you know that ...
January 11, 2021 | Posted by : J Morris
From time to time we are asked to handle end of life arrangements for clients who have no family – no parents, siblings, children or spouse to help make decisions about their property, finances, health and welfare. Obviously this can be quite a worrying situation for someone on their own, but there’s an easy way to make the appropriate arrangements and ensure that your wishes – and you – are properly taken care of in the future: with Lasting Powers of Attorney.
According to a survey by Which?, almost two thirds (71%) of people have no plans for their end-of-life care. Over half had discussed their future wishes with friends and family but not put any concrete plans in ...
January 08, 2021 | Posted by : J Morris
Approximately 40% of all divorce petitions are submitted online, and it’s highly likely that percentage has increased since the start of the Covid-19 pandemic. Submitting a petition online can be convenient and quick, but there are also some drawbacks to weigh up before you proceed.
The online application process was set up with an aim to make things easier and more accessible for couples wishing to separate in response to rising numbers of litigants in person. However, the main issue with this is that most people don’t have the resources or knowledge to adequately represent themselves, and even the simplest online system will not fix that.
In all cases, it’s highly recommended that you speak to an experienced solicitor before ...
January 04, 2021 | Posted by : J Morris
It’s safe to say we saw a significant increase in divorce enquiries during the tumultuous past year, many of them directly related to the pressures of lockdown and the stresses of living through a pandemic. That’s not to say covid-related issues were the cause of people wanting to separate, but in many cases they were what pushed relationships to the brink and forced people to reassess their priorities. Financial worries, job losses, disagreements over the division of labour at home, or simply being cooped up together in such a high-stress situation are all potentially compounding elements when it comes to a relationship already under strain, and for some, the events of 2020 created a ‘make or break’ situation.
December 27, 2020 | Posted by : J Morris
2021 is on the horizon (finally!)…
2020 has been a momentous year, to say the least, and for many of us, it’s made us think about what really matters and perhaps even made us re-think some of our priorities. It’s also shown us that we cannot predict the future (you literally could not have written the events of 2020!) and how important it is to have a safety net in place to protect our own future, and the future of our loved ones.
Having the right legal documentation is vital to make sure your living arrangements are secure, your relationships are safeguarded, your children are looked after, your estate is protected, and your end of life plans and wishes are ...
December 14, 2020 | Posted by : J Morris
As 2020 (finally!) comes to an end, the team at Frances Lindsay & Co is very much looking forward to some much-deserved time off, and our offices will be closed from 5pm Wednesday 23rd December 2020 and we will re-open at 8.30am Monday 4th Jan 2021.
We would like to say a huge thank you to all our clients for bearing with us this year as we navigated the sudden changes to our practices, transferred our face-to-face appointments to video calls, and dealt with everything this year has thrown at us!
We will, as always, make sure that any ongoing cases are taken care of before we close up for the Christmas holidays, and our team will be on hand before ...