Could Date Nights Save Your Marriage?

December 09, 2013  |   Posted by :   |   Blog

The Norwegian government seems to think so. The Populist party is promoting date nights for couples in crisis in the hope of cutting divorce rates and encouraging “small pockets of time where parents can be lovers”. Solveig Horne, Norway’s minister for children, equality and social inclusion, has stated her intention to lower the national divorce rate by advocating that couples regularly take time out together in order to keep their marriage alive. 

Norway’s divorce rate currently stands at 40%, with those aged between 40 and 44 most likely to seek a divorce. Having experienced divorce herself, the minister is adamant that setting aside time to be with and talk to your partner can have a huge positive benefit for couples. In addition to government-recommended date nights, Horne also hopes to increase funding towards family counselling for couples going through relationship breakdown.

“With state-run counselling offices, couples can learn more about how to be together before they have problems and talk things through when problems do arise.” Horne explained.

“In a busy life of work and family, the week can feel too short to attend to your relationship with your partner, so each couple needs to decide what sort of a date night they should have, whether it’s a night at the movies or a walk together without the kids for a couple of hours.”

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The National Marriage Project set up a similar campaign in the US, encouraging couples to take date nights each week. The group claimed that those who set aside “couple time” at least once a week were 3.5 times more likely to report being happy in their marriage.

So what do you think? Could something as simple as scheduling time to spend with your partner be enough to save a marriage that’s in difficulty? As mediation-trained divorce lawyers, we certainly see the benefits of couples taking the time to sit down together and work through their problems. And if date nights aren’t enough, the separation process can be made far smoother and less stressful by keeping the lines of communication open and working together as a couple towards the best outcome. Like Horne, we have our own experiences of divorce, and our team of solicitors are sensitive to the different personal situations and emotions that can arise through divorce – if you need to talk about your circumstances and options for separation, please get in touch with us at Frances Lindsay & Co.

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